Farm kid from North Dakota. Parents who never finished school but gave him one rule: "Do it well or not at all." In the 6th grade, he got rejected from a youth group and spent 40 years turning that wound into a science of trust.
If you want to build an advisory practice that generates trust, referrals, and revenue without chasing, stop selling and become a leader.
Tommy Schaff went from struggling advisor to one of only six Cialdini Method Certified Trainers in North America — and now teaches financial advisors how to attract clients on demand using the science of influence.
The system you were trained on has one fatal flaw: it made you a salesperson. Your clients don't want a salesperson. They want a leader.
The Followed Framework™ teaches you to cross from the left column to the right — permanently. Built on Dr. Robert Cialdini's 7 Principles of Persuasion.
▶ Show Me How to CrossThe left column is how 999 advisors in your zip code operate. The right column is how the one who wins every time operates.
Five advisors walk into a prospect meeting. Only one walks out with the client. Which one are you today — and which one do you want to be?
Sharpest analysis in the room. The prospect picks the better handshake.
You learn pre-suasion. Prospects stop comparing you because you stop sounding comparable.
COIs say you're "solid." Nobody insists their friends meet someone "solid."
You engineer reciprocity and social proof. COIs don't pass along a card — they tell a story.
The numbers work. They say "let me think about it." Every time.
The STORIES™ Method turns data into emotional commitment.
$500K+. Good by any measure. The number hasn't moved.
You shift from problem-solver to problem-finder. Average case size grows.
You open your mouth and hear the jargon. They hear it too.
Identity replaces scripts. Identity never cracks under pressure.
Here's where they went.
"$937,000 in 30 days. But more importantly — clients started calling me first."
The problem is not your product. It's not your price. It's not even your market. Here's what it actually is:
This is not theory. This is peer-reviewed, field-tested science. Dr. Robert Cialdini spent 35 years building it. Tommy Schaff spent 35 years living it. The Followed Framework™ is where both meet.
Most advisors spend 90% of their training on the things that ranked last in what clients actually care about.
The question isn't whether this works. The question is why you'd spend another day without it.
Introducing an advisor with genuine authority before a meeting increases appointments by 20% and contracts by 15% — without changing a single word
One real point of connection before a conversation pushes agreement rates from 55% to 90% — and makes deals 18% more valuable
Clients who truly trust their advisor? 94% become active referral sources — not because they were asked, but because they couldn't help themselves
Pick the depth that fits.
Learn the science. Walk out dangerous.
Live the science. Become the person people follow.
If you attend, engage, and don't walk away with clarity, confidence, and language that moves people — you don't pay. Full stop.
Dr. Cialdini's authorized workshop for organizations. Delivered by Tommy. Customized to your team.
One of six. Dr. Robert Cialdini personally certified Tommy as one of only six Cialdini Method Certified Trainers in North America — not because he studied the principles, but because Tommy had been living them for 35 years before the science caught up.
He built what no one else built. Cialdini teaches what to do. Tommy built the Followed Framework™ to teach who to be. No other trainer makes that distinction.
He IS his own case study. He mailed a literal trash can to a prospect with a note: "It all goes in the garbage. I thought I'd save you a step." The prospect called back. He owns 7,139 baseball bobbleheads — 2.5× the Guinness record.
The origin. The rebuild. The rooms you haven't been in.
Farm kid from North Dakota. Parents who never finished school but gave him one rule: "Do it well or not at all." In the 6th grade, he got rejected from a youth group and spent 40 years turning that wound into a science of trust.
In 1986, his business collapsed. $60,000 in debt. He sold 25,000 baseball cards and performed singing telegrams to survive. He failed as a standup comic.
Most people bury those stories. Tommy turned every one of them into a framework. He calls it the Velveteen Rabbit principle: you become real by letting your hair get loved off.
Chief Strategy Officer for Tony Robbins and Chet Holmes, speaking after Tony on stages across three continents. Training teams at Intuit, Costco, US Bank. Closing 9 and 10-figure deals. Half of his Solutionpeople clients were Business Week's Top 50 Most Innovative Companies.
Then he asked one question: What if I built all of this — specifically for the advisor sitting across from a real family making a real decision?
Tommy left bigger stages and bigger fees because he believed the advisory profession trained humanity out of good people. His mission is to give it back — one conversation, one laugh, one real connection at a time.
"The biggest communication problem in business isn't what people say. It's that people try so hard to sound impressive that they forget to sound human."
This isn't a tagline. It's a decision.
The advisory profession taught you to close. To overcome. To always be "on." And somewhere in that training, it took the most important thing away from you: the permission to be human in a conversation where everything is at stake.
Tommy's mission is to give that back. One advisor at a time. Using the most researched, most proven, most ethical influence framework ever developed — Cialdini's 7 Principles — deployed not as tactics but as identity.
32 seats per cohort. New immersions monthly.
A 15-minute diagnostic that shows you exactly where your influence is working and where it's costing you clients.
No pitch. No obligation. Just clarity on where you stand.
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